GOD HELPS THEM WHO HELPS THEMSELVES
03/11/2010Gambling is a name with game, fun, money and at last a disaster of a life and sometimes for full family. There are a lot of people there that have a problem with gambling. One cannot get rid of gambling problem forcefully. They don’t just gamble. Something inside of them gives an urge or a reason to do it. There is something in their mind that gives them permission and there is also some sort of psychological pay off for doing it. Forceful retention won’t help them during weak moment. The root cause of this is that they get a psychological pay off for doing it. For this pay off it allows their mind to give permission for gamble. At first they have to find out what the pay off is. Because, nobody does things without a reason. Many gamblers have failing marriages, broke up relations or may be they are someone that just likes the rush of winning at chance. Whatever it is they have to identify. If the gambling problem is just to cloak over another problem, then they have to confront it and fix it. But if it is just for the rush of winning ,they might have to take up some hobby or sports to get rid of that feeling.
At first a gambler have to identify and understand how gambling can affect their lifestyle. Then they should reframe their old way of thoughts in gambling. They should empower their goal, create their own Miracle. They should understand what triggers them to gamble and effective diversion from gambling. They have to feel the pain and pleasure strategy to quit gambling effectively. And the ultimate formula is to make their mind to quit gambling.
Gambling is not a crime or offense, but when you get addicted to it, you will lose total control of yourself and your emotion will be greatly affected. Not only does it affect you physically, mentally and emotionally, you’ll also be hurting people around you.
Base on researches, many people take gambling as a form of entertainment, hobby or even as an alternative income. However, not everyone knows that it is extremely dangerous when you get seriously obsessed into it.
